tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13930590.post6480233855981429566..comments2023-10-23T11:31:14.944-07:00Comments on Catch, Neuter & Release: Snow on the MountainsYummyteecehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04746686139341156241noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13930590.post-79815622272002657782013-02-09T23:25:10.279-08:002013-02-09T23:25:10.279-08:00Bizza,
You speak such honest wisdom here. Thank y...Bizza,<br />You speak such honest wisdom here. Thank you. <br /><br />I have built many hearts, but certainly the one I built with my most recent ex was one of the longest and closest to me. I grieve its passing and cannot find within me the strength to want to build a new one with anyone in the future, because this hollow pain is soul-swallowing. <br /><br />Perhaps someday, I too will heal and prosper. Hard to believe right now, but ... perhaps. <br /><br />Glad to hear that all is well with you. Thanks for still dropping by. :)Yummyteecehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04746686139341156241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13930590.post-6173175998948911832013-01-10T20:59:29.901-08:002013-01-10T20:59:29.901-08:00I've been away for a while. When last I checke...I've been away for a while. When last I checked-in with you, your relationship was just blooming. I'm heartily sorry to read that it has ended. <br /><br />I empathize with how you're feeling. The insatiable urge to share something awesome with the person who is no longer with you romantically. I found myself feeling this way a decade ago when my girlfriend and I mutually agreed to end our relationship. <br /><br />(By mutually agreed, I mean she dumped me and I hung around as a casual stunt-penis until she drove the point home by banging another guy in her bathroom at a party she hosted and I funded.)<br /><br />In the aftermath, no matter how much I cleaned my apartment, I couldn't escape her scent. I would find things on TV that we had shared laughs watching in the past, and I fought the urge to call her and recapture that feeling. <br /><br />I'm happily married now -- to a woman that i love ant trust implicitly -- but I won't insult your intelligence by saying something ridiculous like "it gets better". We both know that's not the point. <br /><br />As great as things are for me now, nothing will ever replace the unique relationship I had 10 years ago with that person. <br /><br />I do not subscribe to the "soul-mate" adage, but I do believe that when someone special enters your life, you build a heart with that person. The heart i share with my wife is completely different from the heart i shared with my ex, and one does not diminish the other. <br /><br />Despite how things ended, I look back fondly on the heart I shared with my ex. I even reach out and touch those memories from time to time for nostalgia's sake. But I also cherish, honor, and respect the heart I now share with my wife.<br /><br />I have mourned, healed, and prospered because of my experiences. I wish nothing but the very same for you. <br /><br />Till then, I'll peek in on you from time to time... and I'll be listening. The Bizzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17797871556831556557noreply@blogger.com